The Power of Now !
For so long, I used to wonder why people I knew—family, friends, even those I supported—didn’t always engage, celebrate, or cheer me on. On social media, I’d notice strangers connecting with me more deeply than people who’d been in my life for years. And honestly? That used to bother me.
But here’s what I realize now: it doesn’t really matter who didn’t see me before. What matters is who NOW sees me!
The Trap of Looking Back
It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that people we know should be our biggest supporters. But sometimes, the people closest to us only see the version of us they remember, not the one we’ve grown into. That lens can keep us feeling overlooked, misunderstood, or even underestimated.
The truth? Carrying that weight robs us of the joy in front of us.
The Shift: Living in the Now
I recently experienced a breakthrough. I cried, not from sadness, but from the sheer power of liberation I felt. That eye of freedom the awareness that I am fully seen and aligned in this moment hit me so profoundly that my soul couldn’t hold it in.
I went to sleep carrying that energy and woke up with it still alive in me. That freedom isn’t tied to a specific date; it’s a moment I carry with me every day. Not the freedom of “finally being noticed,” but the freedom of realizing I no longer need validation from the past. The only thing that matters is the alignment I feel and the people who see me now.
Why Being Seen Now Matters
As an entrepreneur and as a woman over 40, this lesson has transformed how I move through life and business. The people who recognize your heart, your passion, and your vision today, those are your community.
They’re the ones buying your products, sharing your posts, sending encouragement, and seeing you fully in your purpose. That’s where the energy belongs. That’s where growth happens.
Carrying the Energy Forward
Liberation isn’t just a moment—it’s a choice. I’m choosing to carry this energy forward, to walk with it daily, and to let it fuel my journey.
I no longer measure myself by who overlooked me. I measure myself by the freedom I feel, the alignment I live in, and the light I carry—today, right now.
✨ Closing Thought: If you’ve ever felt unseen or unsupported, release it. Focus on the now. The ones who are meant to align with you will always find you.